963 bài Essays mẫu - Phần 23

able and easy going. The reason for 
that is they play games with you as communicating with you. Therefore, games can make 
you accessible and widely welcomed. That is very important. 
Games are the recreation in the life, the way of relaxing, the way of reforming yourself, 
as they are for children, they are important for adults too. 
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Essay 345 Topic 61 SHould parents make decisions for their older teenage children? 
In today`s fast paced society, parents and adult relatives play a significant role in shaping 
a child`s life. They teach them how to live, how to make a right decision, & struggle for 
achieving their goals. Most of the teenager thinks that they are able to make all decisions 
in their lives. In my opinion, I strongly agree that parents and adult relatives should make 
important decisions for their teenage children because teenagers are inexperienced, over-
confident and do not realize the consequences that the important decisions can have on 
their lives. 
Teenagers being in the adult world and having their first experiences of their adult lives, 
think that they are capable to make their own decisions without parents opinion. 
However, most of the times, their friends influence their decisions. For instance, a student 
may get a scholarship into a top university, but just because of his/her friend is going to 
the college, he/she also follows to go to college too. This is not a creative or proud 
decision they have make. In this case the decision is obviously influential and in the 
future it may have great negative effects. So, parents or adult relatives should play their 
role to make decisions for their children. 
Secondly and equally important, teenagers mostly are over-confident to make up their 
own decision. The teenagers have not enter the practical life, they are still fresh and do 
not have any idea of how practical world works. Teenagers are living in a kind of fantasy 
world before entering university. They think everything is cool and perfect or too ideal 
such that their mind is too easy and simple to make decision. For example, teenagers 
might think that playing badminton in school definitely can get them selected on national 
team. This may be true in some cases, but usually it would not work out in this way. So if 
they neglect their study, just to concentrate on their sport, they are going to be definitely 
loss and might give a deep impact of their lives. 
All in as far as I concerned, I agree to stay that parents or adult relatives make important 
decisions for their teenage children because teenagers are lack of experiences and over-
confident not be able to make decisions for themselves. 
Essay 346 Topic 61 SHould parents make decisions for their older teenage children? 
I disagree the statement. Parents or other adult relatives should not make important 
decisions for their older (15 to 18 year-old) teenage children. Their older teenage children 
should make the decisions by themselves. The reasons are as below. 
The children will not be regret if they do the decisions. When children get the age 15 to 
18 year-old, they have a lot of decisions to do. Most of them are about the rest of their 
lives. One of the most important decisions is the education one. Go to the college, 
university or work? Sometime the parents or other relatives like to make a decision for 
the teens with their idea, however, most of the time the kids do not like adults` idea. 
When the children grown up, they may feel regret. For example, I like history very and I 
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am doing very well in history. I want to study history in university. However, my parents 
want me to study engineering in university. While, I am a good child, I let them make a 
decision for my major. finally, when I get into the university, I could not get good mark, 
could not get scholarship, I could not get everything I expected. I am regret right now. I 
always think if I did that decision by myself, it will be much better. 
Teens should learn how to make decisions. Parents or other adult relatives could not 
always make decisions for them, especially when teens grow up. The age between 15 to 
18 is a perfect time to learn how to make a decision. Their parents or other adult relatives 
can help them. Remember, it is help them, it means give the teens some advices. The 
teens can think about their advices. The advices may helpful for teens to make decision. 
It is good for the teens` world lives. 
In conclusion, teen`s should make any decisions by themselves. 
Essay 347 Topic 61 SHould parents make decisions for their older teenage children? 
It seems a little bit difficult to choose approval or disapproval between these two 
opinions, because they both have their own positive sides and negative sides. To some 
extent, it is hard to distinguish strictly, but this does not mean they are of the same to me. 
After weighing two distinctive features, I disagree with the above statement that adult 
family members should make important decisions for their older teenage children, if 
personal quality is considered as a criterion to choose things. 
There are many reasons that can account for my personal opinion. The most important 
one is that an big decision to these older teenage children may influence their life or 
behavior heavily in the future. The decision made by parents is not absolutely fit to their 
children or the young people will not satisfy with their parent`s decision, though parents 
knew their children very well. If the children did not like the decision, they will not 
perform it very well automatically and, apparently, it will not get a good result. Like an 
eighteen-year old teenage children, he or she is going to enter a college or university. 
Which major will be taken is problem to them. A good, fit decision which is made by 
children`s considerate thinking leads them to the way of success. 
The second obvious reason is that learning how to make an important decision is an 
essential thing to these older children. From birth to growing, people always learn how to 
make decision either small one or big one. This is a necessary ability to everyone. A child 
when he or she is going to adult age especially should know how to distinguish things. 
The skill is absolutely useful to them. Parents could foster their older children this 
capability through giving them some valuable suggestions and the result of things will 
depend on children themselves. 
Furthermore, a people should have responsibility to what he or she decides. Older 
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children make decision by themselves and they also should take on the result. This rule is 
very important to them, especially for their future. A responsible person is always 
popular among his or her groups. 
In conclusion, fostering older children to make decision is an important job for adults. 
Essay 348 Topic 61 SHould parents make decisions for their older teenage children? 
First of all, it is not easy to define if people at the age of 15 to 18 are adults or children 
because they are physically grown up and intelligent enough to carry out general work 
like adults do in a company, while a lot of them are under their parents` control. I believe 
that they should be able to make important decisions by themselves, no matter how hard 
for them. 
Needless to say, recognition of age and maturity is not universal sense. There were some 
times that 15 to 18 years old were recognized as adults and supposed to think and act 
independently. It was usual for women at the age of fewer than 20 to get married in my 
grandmother`s generation in Japan. Even the present days, it maybe still a common thing 
in some developing countries. Thus, I guess it depends on whether the community is 
wealthy enough for 15 to 18 year-old children to be children or not. Women in my 
grandmother`s generation needed to get married as soon as possible to have about 10 
children in order to get enough labor forces for their family business and have them 
taking care of their parents and grandparents. In those days, children must have grown up 
with prediction of earlier age they had been supposed to become independent. 
These days, women in developed countries do not need to have so many children 
anymore and they can go on to higher education, by comparison with early times. It has 
enabled mothers to get a job as well as fathers in order to make their family wealthier and 
keep their children beside them longer. As children are not expected to be important labor 
forces for their family anymore, it may not really matter if they are mature enough to 
make important decisions. Then how do children predict themselves to be independent at 
the age of 15 to 18 in such a situation? 
I strongly believe that this phenomenon has made today`s adults more immature and 
immoral. I could not believe that a lot of 20 year-old Japanese people attended the 
ceremony for Coming of Age Day with their parents this year. Unless adults stop treating 
young people like children, future adults will become even more immature. They still 
need parents` and other adults` advice to make important decisions but I cannot agree 
with the statement: parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions for 
their older teenage children. I would say that it is no more than spoiling children. 
Essay 349 Topic 61 SHould parents make decisions for their older teenage children? 
Some people think that parents or other adult relatives should make important decisions 
for their older teenage children. In my opinion, I disagree with this statement. There are